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Absent With Leave : The Three Fs of Retirement

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Retirement should be viewed as a full and rewarding stage in your life, not just as the end of the road. However, to do this, you need to ensure that you plan it well and make the most of all of the opportunities that come your way. Read on for some suggestion on how to do this.

Family

Of course, one of the biggest benefits of being retired is that you get to spend more time with the people that you love. This could be with you partner or spouse, or your extended family such as the grandkids.

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Nevertheless, you need to consider a few things before you can make the most of this. First, location is important. It is, of course, a lot easier to spend quality time with family if you are living closer to them. That might mean that you choose to move to the same area or even town.

You also need to consider how much your relationships with your partner might change during retirement. The chances are that you have not spend as much time with you another half during the day, as you will when you give up work.

While this can seem like a dream, it often turns into a bit of a nightmare, because there is a significant period of getting used to this before things settle down. That is why it can definitely help to be prepared for this psychologically, as well as ensuring that you both have time out of the house with other people, so you do not end up experiencing cabin fever.

Finances

Now, to make the most of all of the opportunities that will come your way during the stage of your life, you need to get your finances in order.

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Some of this needs to be done before you reach retirement stage, such as ensuring that your pension is giving you the best return. That means contributing as much as possible, and if you aren’t happy with your current pension provider, you can make a pension transfer to a more favorable one.

It can also be a good idea to make some investment to help you be more financially comfortable in your retirement years. Many folks opt for buy to let properties. As the rental fees cover the mortgage and then they can sell the property when they come to retirement age and free up the capital.

Fun

Lastly, more than at any other time in your life you will want to have some fun during your retirement. Only you can decide what that is. Maybe you want to go traveling and see all the places in the world that you have not had a chance to yet.

Alternatively, maybe you have a bucket list of experience that you want to complete like swimming with dolphins, meeting your favorite star, and even bungee jumping.

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Just remember that your retirement is for you. Therefore, you should get out the habit of making everyone else happy, and do something that feeds your soul and makes your life fun and worthwhile.

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